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The Yin of Sex,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Pole dance classes at your local "Y," burlesque and striptease billed as "female empowerment," fetish shoes worn as ordinary daywear,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], cougars on the prowl, and porn star sex not only ubiquitous on the Internet but expected in every bedroom - contemporary sex is all about the yang.
You've seen the yin/yang symbol: the white and black teardrops coexisting inside a circle, each half complimenting the other, each essential for the other's existence. In the East, the timeless symbol demonstrates that all in the manifest world exists as a pair of opposites: fast/slow, hot/cold,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], passive/aggressive, male/female. These opposites exist only in relation to each other, creating a world of perfect balance.
In terms of sex, yang is outer directed (like a penis): aggressive, hot,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], noisy, fast, focused on technique,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and headed toward the goal of orgasm. Sex is often voyeuristic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a spectator sport, with a preference for the visual. In prior times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], yang was the sole province of men, the masculine.
Yin sexuality is the opposite: inner directed (like a vagina): passive, cool, slow, quiet,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], meandering, with no other goal than shared sensuality. Yin is full of secrets,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], soft, yielding, private,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hidden, shy and reticent. Women, the feminine,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], were the sole holders of yin.
Women in the sexist past had no choice but to embody yin, or men yang,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with dire consequences for those who strayed from their stereotypes. Most people of today enjoy our potential for greater flexibility and the openness toward people of all persuasions. Ideally, both men and women would embrace their inner yin as well as their outer yang, but that is not what is happening.
Yin is no longer an option anywhere in the West, including the bedroom. Women are boldly exhibiting their yang qualities -- nobody wants to be seen as weak. We are prejudiced against the slow, the soft, the passive, the diffuse, the meandering, the unfocused, the yielding. Self-help books and seminar leaders encourage eradicating any yin qualities in oneself in order to be always assertive, bold, virile. Porn promotes a preference for yang sex. We devalue the yin, both in ourselves and others, which is misogyny in a subtle, insidious form.
It is a timeless truth that both yin and yang are essential, and that everything and everyone carry both qualities. It doesn't help to repress or pretend you don't have yin. If you do, you will never know yourself. The next time you notice you are feeling shy, or reticent,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or passive, or slow, that you don't feel like sharing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or that you want sex that explores aimlessly and doesn't go anywhere, instead of finding it wrong, you begin a fascinating exploration of what this hidden part of yourself is all about.
Catherine is quite correct in her analysis of the predominance of yang in today's sexuality. Women in an act of 'liberation' are encouraged to act more like men, until all we see portrayed is sex that is aggressive and totally male in it's expression.
The irony of this new women's liberation, is that they have become more compliant with male's wishes, and less in tune with their own nature.
I would encourage women to pay attention to Catherine's last paragraph. Your own inherent nature will probably call to you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not as a lion, but as a quiet forest breeze whispering through the trees. Listen to your self.相关的主题文章：

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