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There's Always Hope To Stop Your Divorce

 
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PostPosted: Mon 22:59, 19 Aug 2013    Post subject: There's Always Hope To Stop Your Divorce

There's Always Hope To Stop Your Divorce
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What you can try to do now is. "Step back a minute," advised T. Dub Jackson in his book Magic of Making Up, "take a step back to weigh in your interest of your own affairs with your moderate concern of anything else." Your partner when you blame them, they are more likely to resent because they're on the defensive side. Listen to them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if they blame you, just go with it before you can redirect the conversation to the solution. Only then, you have grasped firmly the solid foundation in relationship, which is, "Success in a relationship depends on the ears paying attention of the other person's viewpoint."
He married his best friend because he believed she's the women he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. Three years later on board with a baby boy, on a cool summer night at the porch of his home, his wife dropped the bomb admitting to have an affair with another man. So the divorce papers were on its way a few days afterwards leaving the wife to take the blame.
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As you can see, the wife was giving him a second chance, but he wouldn't listen.
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Naturally, he was really losing control of his emotions, and was splitting in two.
They didn't go to counseling. But after patiently going through the book written on this subject, the husband realized now, how foolish he had been all those years. It never occurred to him that his wife was craving for his attention, which he only cares of his own. She might really appreciate a compliment on her diligence.
One afternoon, on the day came for the divorce to be finalized, he was in good place. He was healed physically and emotionally. The judge gave him a chance to speak. It's hard to recall all the horrible details of what happened years ago but all he remembers from being in that courtroom was turning to his wife and saying, "Honey,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I love you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I don't want a divorce… I want to work it out."
There's none. The script remains the same it seems for so many people. And as for these two, they worked as a team. They learned effective communication. They learn to take ownership of mistakes. And more importantly they have learned to consider other person ideas or feeling are as important as their own.
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Ask yourself, have you really given your spouse's feelings a second thought? Things happened for a reason. A reason that often eludes beneath the anger and frustration. Find the cause, because 90% of the time. you'll find it worth to be corrected.
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Much of the information that appears in the book appears nowhere else. Divorce in a relationship may differ in reasons. As a result, every couple may have their own set of challenges coping with divorce. Discover further of your challenges in order to stop your divorce because your happiness depends heavily on it.
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