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You do the math in your head: The auto ship is $200 dollars per month and the starter kit was $750. $1950 is not $5000. Your distributor confesses that she signed up for private coaching at $250 dollars per hour. She was on a conference call you sponsored 6 months ago, the personal coach was there and offered a discount from his [url=http://www.teatrodeoro.com/hollisterde.php]hollister[/url] usual fee; $250 dollars per hour seemed a small price to pay to break into the big money. There's a problem. The coaching intended to shorten your distributor's learning curve simply drained her bank account knocking her out of your business!
What happened? The Guru Bomb Shell happened.
"'The therapist is an observer and a catalyst. He has no power to "cure" the patient for the cure is entirely out of his hands…the patient is already fully equipped for getting well…Since he (the therapist) is not "responsible for the cure", he is free to enjoy the spectacle of it taking place.'"--------Sheldon B. Kopp, If You Meet the Buddha on the Road, Kill Him!
While Dr. Kopp was talking about the journey of psychotherapy patients toward wellness, he was talking about the very real Guru phenomenon as it relates to psychotherapy. The idea that someone outside of ourselves has the answers: if we would only sit at that person's feet we too will become enlightened and be that much further that much quicker down the road of psychic wellness, wealth, meditation, etc.
Here is the problem: Aside from the most rudimentary issues a person can face, (like a leaky roof) throwing money at a problem will never solve that problem. Years ago while on a conference call, a friend of mine asked a Diamond director [url=http://www.rtnagel.com/louboutin.php]louboutin[/url] in our company if she engaged in any personal development. The Diamond paused and said that she had read Think [url=http://www.thehygienerevolution.com/hollister.php]hollister[/url] and Grow Rich. Personal coaching? No. Five-thousand dollar weekend seminar? No.
That Diamond Director had something that neither my friend nor I had at the time, life experience and perspective. She toiled in her business for 5 years retailing [url=http://www.ktbruce.co.uk/barbourjackets.php]barbour jackets[/url] product, making a steady, weekly income, until her vision caught up with her business and her business took off. After toiling for 5 years, she went from 500 dollars a week to $30,000 per month over a period of 18 months.
Some of the best team builders I know in the industry do something very well: They control the flow of information from third-party vendors into their organization, utilizing relatively low cost information products created by people who do not offer coaching.
What can you do to inoculate yourself and your team against the guru bombshell? Start with yourself.
First and foremost be honest with yourself about your need for coaching. Have you consistently taken the action steps to promote your business? Are you in regular communication with your upline mentor? Are you using your company's training materials?
Second, be specific. What will you gain [url=http://www.fibmilano.it]woolrich[/url] from coaching?
Third, what effort will you put forth as a result of coaching that you are not putting forth now? What effort will you put forth while in coaching that you are not putting forth now?
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Fifth, understand and accept that the entrepreneur's journey is a process that requires perspective and perspective requires time. Most of us are experiential learners. Someone telling us what to do is simply not sufficient. We have to experience heartaches and joys and work through them gaining experience and perspective through the emotional challenges.
The Guru Bomb Shell happens because a team leader [url=http://www.tagverts.com/barbour.php]barbour deutschland[/url] or a downline member introduces a Guru to the team. It generally does not happen by accident. In an industry built on patterns of duplication, why introduce the least duplicatable element of all to your team? Introducing team members to a guru and expecting the same positive result for each person is about as duplicatable as trying to predict the weather.
Dr. Kopp makes a bold statement, "the patient is already fully equipped for getting well." If that statement is true, why put the responsibility for achievement on the Guru? Why not take personal responsibility for the [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/abercrombie/]abercrombie[/url] achievement that is truly yours?

Ouida Vincent is the co-author of Straight Talk MLM: The Black and White of the Network Marketing Industry. She and co-author, million dollar earner, Mike Ray are bringing clarity and transparency to the industry of Network Marketing by offering honest answers regarding success in and the true cost of building a business in Network Marketing. Meet both Mike and Ouida at
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